Hello everyone, I’m a veteran in Japan’s nightlife scene! When visiting an adult entertainment establishment for the first time, it’s natural to feel nervous. However, nervousness, especially in front of the ladies, can lead to unpleasant experiences like not being able to perform when the time comes. This time, I want to share some tips to help you relax and enjoy your first visit to such a venue without any anxiety.
Why Do You Feel Nervous in Adult Entertainment Establishments?
First, let’s understand why you might feel nervous in such places and how to address those concerns.
Reason 1: Pressure Due to Ego
The primary reason men feel nervous in adult entertainment establishments is their strong ego. Men often worry about not wanting to embarrass themselves or fail during intimate moments. Concerns like “I should take control like a real man” or “I don’t want to show any weaknesses” can lead to nervousness and affect blood circulation, making it difficult to maintain an erection. However, it’s important to know that in Japanese adult entertainment establishments, except for special places like BDSM clubs, the staff is there to take care of you throughout the experience. There’s no need to stress about taking the lead or appearing overly masculine.
Reason 2: The Fear of the Unknown
The fear of the unknown is a common reason for feeling nervous, especially during your first visit. Questions like “When should I undress?” or “What should I do after taking a shower?” can create anxiety because you’re unsure about the process. The solution is to familiarize yourself with the typical flow before meeting the staff. You can research online or check forums like PTT to understand the general process. Having a mental roadmap of the experience can significantly reduce anxiety.
let’s talk about some techniques to ease nervousness
Relaxation Techniques to Alleviate Nervousness
Nervousness arises because the sympathetic nervous system is active. However, an active parasympathetic nervous system is essential for achieving and maintaining an erection. Here are three simple and convenient relaxation techniques to activate the parasympathetic nervous system:
1. Alcohol
While alcohol can be effective, it’s crucial not to overdo it. Excessive alcohol intake can numb the nerves, making it difficult to experience excitement and maintain an erection. So, a moderate amount of alcohol can help you relax.
2：ED Medication
Erectile dysfunction (ED) medication can be a practical solution. It doesn’t rely on psychological effects and can ensure a strong erection. It can also provide confidence, knowing that you’ll be able to perform without issues.
3. Stretching and Massage
Simple stretches and massage can be effective in promoting blood circulation, which is essential for relaxation. You can do some light stretching during your waiting time at the establishment. Additionally, a brief massage from the staff can also help you relax.
Get to Know the Japanese Providers
Understanding the type of individuals working in Japanese adult entertainment establishments can also reduce anxiety. These professionals are known for their high levels of professionalism and client-centered service. They focus on creating a romantic atmosphere and ensure a satisfying experience for every client, regardless of their initial anxiety.
Conclusion
Unlike intimate experiences with a girlfriend, adult entertainment establishments don’t require you to take control. You can leave your ego behind and focus on enjoying the experience. The beauty of such venues is that you can relax and have everything taken care of for you. I hope this article sparks your interest in Japan’s adult entertainment scene, and I encourage you to fully enjoy it without any worries.
